It’s been 9 days since I learned she died.
Just over a week ago, I thought of her and looked her up and discovered she had died 4 years ago.
I found her memorial page. At first I thought it had to be someone else (it had to be someone else, just a coincidence of names), but there was her middle name (a family name, usually only an initial in her signature), and there was her photo. Her smile.
We met the first week of college, two freshmen stuck in a mandatory class. I remember commenting on her handwriting (it really did remind me of my father’s, the extended scrawl of ink across the page). I think she came in late that first day of class and sat next to me because there I was near the back and near the aisle. I could have that backward.
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